I hate when people say…”it’s cool because you are gonna be alright, huh?”, like it’s a problem because I don’t have time to let things get me down. Events in my life have given me the ability to bounce back and not dwell in negativity. I don’t think that’s a bad quality to have. I don’t want to be stuck in the moment, I want to live in it and then move on. Sometimes in my life I wish that moment had never occurred, but it did, so I deal with it an move on.
If people stopped dwelling in hurt and pain from the past, a lot of them would be more successful. So you have a failed relationship…ok but you life hasn’t failed because you are still living. There are so many other things that could be going wrong with you. People are talking about you, calling you names, scadalizing your name…SO WHAT! Your success is your revenge but your failure is their success because most of the time, that’s all the “haters” want anyway. Why would you give them a reason to say “ I told you I was right about him or her.”
There are lots of things that can go wrong but for everything that’s wrong, I’m sure there are some things that are right as well. Make an effect to dwell in what’s good and what brings you joy. Life is too short to think about what could have been. Focus on what is to be, you have more control of that than anything in your past.